Lasting Words: Father, Forgive
Henry Lengkeek   -  

Understanding Jesus’s First Words on the Cross: A Message of Divine Forgiveness

The words “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing” represent Jesus’s first statement from the cross. These powerful words reveal the heart of God and demonstrate the transformative power of forgiveness.

Why Are Jesus’s Last Words Important?

Last words often reveal what’s most important to a person. While some historical figures’ last words focused on worldly concerns, Jesus’s words from the cross summarize the gospel and God’s great love for humanity. Despite experiencing extreme physical pain and difficulty speaking, Jesus chose to focus on forgiveness rather than revenge.

What Does “Father, Forgive Them” Really Mean?

This prayer acknowledges several important spiritual truths:

  • All sin is primarily against God the Father
  • No one is outside God’s grace
  • Forgiveness is offered before repentance (prevenient grace)
  • Jesus became sin on our behalf
  • The gateway to salvation remains open

Who Are the “Them” Jesus Refers To?

While Jesus’s immediate context included the soldiers and religious leaders responsible for His crucifixion, His prayer extends to all humanity across time. We were all spiritually present at the crucifixion because our sins contributed to the necessity of Christ’s sacrifice.

How Should Christians Practice Forgiveness Today?

As recipients of God’s forgiveness, Christians are called to:

  • Extend mercy to others
  • Give up the right to revenge
  • See others through the lens of grace
  • Break cycles of blame and pain
  • Forgive repeatedly (beyond just seven times)

What Happens When We Don’t Forgive?

Unforgiveness creates a prison in our hearts that:

  • Blocks the Holy Spirit’s work
  • Creates bitterness
  • Perpetuates cycles of pain
  • Prevents spiritual growth
  • Contradicts our identity as forgiven people

Life Application

This week, consider:

  • Is there someone you need to forgive?
  • Are you struggling to accept God’s forgiveness for yourself?
  • How can you demonstrate grace to others who have wronged you?

Challenge: Identify one person you need to forgive and take a concrete step toward extending grace to them, remembering how Christ has forgiven you.

Remember: As forgiven people, we are called not only to accept God’s grace but to show it through our lives. True freedom comes when we both receive and extend forgiveness.